For me, the bad situation is when the bad lust hunts my soul. This is really annoying while i’ve much tasks to do. Lust here is when you saw a girl, then you’re attracted just by the physical look. So, this is my fault can’t guard my eyes. OK, that’s how the story begun, but there are more strories than just met her once. Actually, i’m not kind of man who just like woman by her looks cool. So, time to gather some information about herself (her attitude and principle). The easist ways for me, without deal with her face to face, are by messenger (luckily she is a netter) and phone (begin social engineering). Whatever you say, but this is not coward ways since you still interested just by her looks. Everthing you always imagine will be different if you really know what’s contained inside herself (i mean not inside her dress perverted, but her personality). I’ll not tell you the conversation (both in YM and phone) here, coz it’s my forbidden secret-ninjutsu (actually, that’s really embarrassing).

Fortunately, google found her phone (home and mobile). You know what, her friend has made a homepage for her class (in campus) which lists person information (phone numbers, emails and addresses) in that class, wew!! As addition i also have db for assistant where she was worked earlier.
Messenger? There’s no need to tell this one, since she was register herself in social network site, blogger etc. She still use the same id for all that services.
Little information could be gathered from testimonies / comments in that sites. OK, little clues about herself are helping me to understand what kind of girl is she. Until this step, she really doesn’t know who am I. OK, let’s try again the footprinting. Whoaa.. she doesn’t respond me at all gubrak, maybe she hates coward anonym.

So far, the clues are not satisfied. Time to reveals myself a little bit. Talk by messenger and phone are keep going on with less frequency, but this time we know each other. It’s getting bored talk with her, it just like interrogate a suspect. Fiuh, after all i just felt she still misses some requirements, but i could tolerate that. The damn bad news she doesn’t respond me at all, *gyah!#$@* gyah, but nevermind.. tabah

update: I called her again, and the conversation is improved. No more gap, i think she had read this post :), yay!! Ok, she’s my friend now
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